30 things to do before 30

Saw this list somewhere, found it interesting and thought it was a good idea... Here's my own list, in no particular  order, some of which i have accomplished by the way! ;-)  

1. Up and go to some country alone
2. Fall in love ( the butterflies in my tummy kind)
3. Get a dog
4. Cut my hair
5. Colour my hair
6. Have a baby/ Be pregnant (Girl, preferrably :D)
7. Learn a language (Spanish maybe)
8. Learn how to play a musical instrument
9. Learn a sport ( Lawn Tennis maybe)
10. Learn Salsa
11. Learn Ibo & Calabar dishes ( They are the way to a man's heart, for real!)
12. Get a brand new car 
13. Get married
14. Start a business
15. Leave home
16. Buy a property
17. Take it to the extreme ( it being anything,lol)
18. Flirt with a stranger ( Maybe share a kiss)
19. Find myself
20. Know who my friends are
21. Start a business
22. Co-habit (i wish!)
23. French-Kiss in public/broad daylight/not on my wedding day (never done that cos i'm shy like that, sigh!)
24. Visit Nairobi
25. Visit Seychelles
26. Throw a slumber party
27. Have a Master's degree
28. Register at a gym ( fasting and prayer needed for this!)
29. Actually wear/use the sexy bikini i have tried a million times!
30. Have sex on a plane (hehehe!)

If i can do all of these before 30 (which is in 18months by the way), then turning 30 won't be so bad afterall...hehehe!

Sudden Halt

Been a while...

Imagine travelling to say Ibadan and the road's been so free, there really hasn't been any reason to bring the car to a halt...

And then from no where, you see a human being (like yourself) run into the road...what happens?

Now imagine the same scenario with a lot of police checkpoints (about 7 so far)...so you've been moving at a somewhat slow pace...before this suicidal being runs into the road?

Which will more likely cause a major accident?

Well...

The first happened to me, not on the road...but in my heart! My 'supposedly' happy relationship came to a sudden halt!

Effect: Numbness!!!

In my last post I wrote about how I'm already thinking wedding colours...in this, I'm back at 1!

Reason: Out of no where, he claims his mum's 'white-garment' affiliates don't approve of 'us' as the 'road' may not be 'smooth'!

That doesn't hurt as much as his 'confusion' and need for 'space' to think about if he wants to take the 'risk'!'Risk' here being me! Whew!

It's been almost three(3) weeks and I haven't heard a word (not a call,sms or bbm), though I can tell he's still alive from his frequent bb updates. I have ended 'that' in my heart, I definitely don't want to be a 'risk' that was taken!

Anyways, that's that...

Question now is 'when will I ever get out of this happiness-pain cycle?', if I do, will I be the same? As it is, all I feel is emptiness and numbness...and sometimes anger!

I guess sudden accidents have the worst impacts afterall...

Ciao